Society has brainwashed us into believing that love is a fairy tale. Love is portrayed as a beautiful romance that is full of happiness and joy and a knight rescuing a damsel in distress. In reality, however, this is far from the case. Love begins with attraction. We are attracted to others because of their physical appearance and personalities. However, those attributes aren’t enough to make a relationship last. Love is a decision to…
When there are so many options to choose from, it can become difficult to not develop a wandering eye. True love influences you to nip those desires in the bud and remain faithful to your partner. There is no giving into any moments of weakness. There are no excuses. Love is a decision to be faithful regardless of the challenging situations you are presented with.
Oftentimes we enter relationships because of what the other person can provide for us. Some of us enter relationships looking for someone to meet our emotional needs; others are looking for someone to meet their financial needs; some are looking for both. Love is a decision to let go of our needs and consider the needs of our partner. It doesn’t mean that you’re going to become a sacrificial lamb and ignore your own needs. Not by any means. However, some people make their relationships all about them with minimal consideration to the other person’s needs. That’s not what love is about. Love is about meeting your partner’s needs and if both of you are doing that, both of your needs will be equally met.
We all have dreams and goals. When you’re in love you should know what your partner’s dreams and goals are so that you can support him in accomplishing them. Traditional wedding vows also say that a couple is to stay together “For better or for worse…in good times and in bad”. It seems like people forget this line when circumstancs become difficult. When there’s no money left, you’re still supposed to make a decision to love. When your husband is struggling, you’re still supposed to make the decision to love and help him find a way out.
Make the Relationship Last
Some things are not worth holding on to. We all know that. Before you give up on your relationship though, you have to make an effort to put the pieces back together. That’s what love is about. You don’t leave something because it’s broken. Instead, you do everything to fix it. When all of that fails then it’s time to move on.
Love is more than just physical attraction and butterflies in your stomach. It’s more than just admiring a winning personality. It’s a decision to be faithful, be selfless, be supportive, and make the relationship last. It’s not easy, but those who go through the fire often emerge stronger then they were before. Don’t give up on love.