You whisper sweet compliments in her ears, make her feel like she’s the one for you, and glance at her with admiring eyes. She think you’re into her and she’s even beginning to wonder if she could be into you too. Surprisingly, a few weeks later she find out that you have a girlfriend and you had no idea that you was flirting with her. Some men really need to get a clue because flirting with the wrong woman can lead to the end of their relationships if they’re not careful. So, how do you know that you’re flirting?
#1: You Have Wandering Eyes
Every time she passes by, you find yourself looking at her from head to toe. She captures your attention with her beauty and, to you, you may just be casually admiring. To her, however, you want her…every inch of her. There’s nothing wrong with admiring a beautiful woman, but don’t make it more than just a slight glance especially if you know that you already have a woman of your own.
#2: Your Words
Words evoke emotions. Shower a woman with compliments and she is going to feel good about herself. At least that’s what you think. Your innocent intentions may just be to help a woman feel good, but she may interpret your words to mean far more than that. Nothing is wrong with saying “You look nice today.” However, when you say things like “You are so beautiful to me, I would want you to be my girl,” that’s taking it a bit too far. Phrase what you want to say carefully and simply.
#3: Your Touches
Some men are the touchy type. Whenever they are talking to a woman they have to touch her shoulder or her hair or her hand. These touches can often be misinterpreted and can lead you into serious problems. The best thing to do is keep your hands away. Keep them for your woman.
#4: Your Attention
When you begin to be overly attentive to a woman, she may think you are interested. Probably you just like her company and stimulating conversations. However, if you are always around her and always texting and calling her that is sending mixed signals. Make sure that you express to her clearly what your intentions are and tone it down a bit.
Sometimes, men genuinely do not know that they are flirting with a woman. You may just find her interesting , but have no intention of pursuing a relationship with her. So, be very careful about what you do and say. Don’t play with her emotions.